Vanity

Are looks important?

Do attractive people get more attention?

If this is true then what happens to the unattractive people? How are they feeling at this very moment?

I’m curious at what age did you first have boyfriends?

Have you ever had a boyfriend?

Teenage life can be such a tough struggle for the majority of us woman. We have to deal with many changes and decisions to make. We all have one major problem in common and that’s boys!

Somehow boys become a priority in our life the urge to be loved comes out in us. We put sports, education, and friendship aside. I say its all these love stories we see the kind of stories that make us cry make our hearts ache, it’s these things that make us think we need and want love!

Where boys come in competition enters and jealousy begins. At the most difficult time in our life’s where’s the girl power going?

And I’m writing this to tell you girls who haven’t had boyfriends yet! yes the fact is pretty girls do get more attention and you know what most of us girls aim so high as well were all a little vain you have to admit that! I may have been lucky in your eyes to have had a boyfriend but with a boyfriend came getting my heartbroken and passing through a lot of pain. I just want to tell you that from all I’ve been through I’ve learnt that I want to be proud of who I am I want to understand myself and I want to feel comfortable in my skin. Having a boyfriend does not solve or make all these problems go away.

So what does? the answer is very simple and its... you! Believing in yourself and setting out goals to reach is what will make you happy and understand yourself and your needs!

I think the key to a good relationship is that you know yourself and how can you know yourself at such a young age? I’m not saying if you get the chance to be with a guy not to take it all I’m saying is they don’t make films for girls who don’t get attention and who don’t have boyfriends and the fact is we are the majority of girls! We all have insecurities and we all have our bad days your not alone!